What do I need to develop to move forward in this situation?

Framework for thinking before acting

Mind the gap - 

We need four things to successfully accomplish a task

1.   the skills to do it- technical skills

2.  the knowledge 

3.  the will - the desire, passion and motivation 

4.  the capacity - the mental, emotional, or physical ability 

5.  the emotional intelligence - the ability to be aware of, manage and express one's emotions and be aware of those of others

So next time ask yourself what gap do I have to handle this situation?  Is it a skill gap? A knowledge gap?  …….